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Monday 3 May 2021

Looped in your own dream?

 Have you ever been sound asleep, and out of a sudden that you found yourself half awake but looped in your own dream?

I experience it recently that I could not wake up and found myself trapped and looped in my own dream. The dream was all about receiving a whatsapp text message from a friend that had blocked you at whatsapp (for some personal reason) and I had not been able to contact this friend since 2018. There was once out of the blue that I received texts from the number, but shortly after, I was blocked again and unable to connect to this person since then. Hearing the whatsapp text notification ringtone, but unable to read and reply text in the same dream was not scary, but more tiring as I would like to wake myself up and unable to do so. 

Perhaps anyone here have the same encounter, or explanation to this encounter? 

Tuesday 25 August 2020

Deja vu?!

 Deja vu?!

Recently I have been having different kind of dreams, that one of it was quite a deja vu.

Have you ever dreamt of someone that you have not seen for more than a year. and then this particular person appear in your dream? Not surprising, but the deja vu kick in after a day later, where this long missing person suddenly text and pop out from an unexpected event.

It was not the first time, that such coincidence occurred. Although some claimed that the dream might be something regarding to self-conscious, some has beg to differ that it might be that person is thinking or missing you. I would prefer the later, as it definitely make me feel being appreciated and missed.  

Should have I send out the text first, will the other felt the same (the same deja vu)? Perhaps?! 

Maybe this question should be thrown to the other person, and to check, if I'm visiting their dreams? Either way, this could be a good deja vu, as it reconnect the dots again...


Sunday 23 June 2019

There will always that some one trying to bring your day to the darkest point

There will always that some one trying to bring your day to the darkest point.
For that some one might have been lacking of security,
For that some one might have been facing difficulties.

For whatever the reason is, life is shown beautifully just like a sky...
It will have the bright side, where sun shining bright...
It will have the dark cloudy side, where rain is shadowing behind...
I have to keep reminding myself that, whenever those whom are giving you hard times,
Please to remember that karma is the best teacher.
They be have their lessons be taught soon, so soon that they will never expected it.

Hence, please do not treat those whom are trying to provide to you a solution badly,
You will be wondering why there is no help, as you had taken away your solution~

Thursday 31 January 2019

Happy Chinese New Year!

Back to hometown to get ready for a blast!

Since early of November 2018, it was a roller-coaster life for myself.

Now, it should be a blast for a brand new year of 2019, and celebration of Piggy Year!

Happy Chinese New Year!

Friday 4 January 2019

~When God closes a door, He opens a window~

"When God closes a door, He opens a window'

This is so true that I had experienced it myself.

Fast forward from the bad news that I had received, where I had been asked to resign voluntarily on early of December; I received job offer at the end of December!

It was withing the same month that I had been given the opportunity to experience the phrase  "When God closes a door, He opens a window". I had been stressed out lately, not only for the resignation, but also on the home loan where it had received bad news too. I hope other bank will consider my joint application with my brother.

Although I am still searching for the best loan and still hoping for the best to come, I am relieved. At last, I do not need to worry on the job security. I know that I should be thankful for the event to take place, where the request for me to voluntarily resign had speed up my chances to have a better offer. However, I am not forgetful about how badly I had been asked to leave. It served as a lifetime lesson to me that we do have horrible people surrounds us, and do not trust people easily!

Nonetheless, I can breathe in ease now, as the nightmare with those horrible people should ceased soon.

Saturday 15 December 2018

Been told to resign voluntarily

I had personally received bad news consecutively...

I had been called to enter for a private one to one discussion session at office, and somehow I had been told to resign voluntarily. It was not a shocking news to me, as I had personally felt that this might happen sooner or later, with the current situation faced by company in the local market.

Hence, I asked if this is a Voluntary Separation Scheme (VSS), and my business manager had proudly said that it was not VSS. He asked me to tender resignation, and work as usual to serve the resignation notice, and then to leave. In this situation, he had emphasized that it was not VSS, and there will be no compensation, and would like to see me to tender my resignation by the month end. Since there is no other third person in the discussion room, I wish not to continue the discussion with him, and told him that I will consider about it.

On the next day, I had inquire with HR about this, and they had informed me that they were not aware of it. "Slow to hire, quick to fire", is quite a risk to the management, as it is not easy for an employer to lay-off their employee without proper compensation or without proper documentation to fire. At the moment, the business manager is pretending that he has nothing to do with it, and company HR had informed saying that since they are not being notified at all for such incident; I had been told to work as usual.

However, the company had express that they might want to downsize and would really hope to have less head counts. I guess, this served as a "hint" from the higher management that they would like to proceed with the official lay-off per stages. Therefore, I had been told to quickly look for a job, and to tender my resignation as soon as possible. What is more inhumane to hear, was that the business director had express his point of view from higher management perspective, and he had spit out unconsciously that he can easily issue letter of misconduct to lay-off employee immediately.

What could have been worst than, you lost job, and place to stay soon?

Since company is not willing to appreciate you, hence, it is time to leave the company soon.

P/S: Some HR friends had gave in some valuable feedback regarding to this.

1. If there is no warning letter prior to the issue of Letter of Misconduct, the employee is entitle to file in a complaint with Malaysia Labour office (Jabatan Buruh Malaysia).

2. If the Management if allowing the lay-off, the letter should be signed by either the business director or business manager to acknowledge that they knew about it. The letter should not be from HR alone, and the employee should not act by just listening verbally. It should be all documented.

3. Should the business manager wish to proceed with company lay-off, they have to ensure there is a third person present in the discussion room, which is preferably the HR personnel.

4. If the company wish to proceed with the lay-off, they have to pay the compensation according to the letter of employment resignation period. This is applicable to those employees earning more than RM2500 basic. Hence, no company is allowed to lay-off their employee without proper compensation. This could be brought in to industrial court shall the employer is being ignorant about compensation.

Monday 10 December 2018

A decision that was made 4 years ago had caused me lost credit score from bank.

A decision that was made 4 years ago had caused me lost credit score from bank.

Just would like to share my situation with readers, if are searching or googling something similar.

I had a joint loan with my sister, for a condominium named under my sister and brother in law. Why is that so? At the time of purchase, my brother in law had already own second house, and if were to loan for a third house, his joined loan with my sister would only be around 70%. Hence, he asked to use my name for it, and it was a total disaster to use my name now, for a house that I did not own.

Bank would not recognized that as our internal settlement. Bank would not know that my joined loan with my sister for the condominium is not wholly under my commitment. It was a joined commitment divided between 5 person. Each has to contribute a small portion and this, is not made know at all with bank.

This loan of mine, which I do not even own anything from it, had made me realized that, you should not easily agree to use your name for loan, even if that's your sister husband, your brother in law, as he is just related to you by law. He has nothing to loose, if anything went south. I had regretted on this, ever since I know I will have harder time to apply for a loan; all no thanks to my brother in law.

You know what's the best part of it? I am going to be jobless soon, and he is asking me to move out from his house. This is what we call related only by law. They can put relative, relationship near to their mouth, but never to their heart. Therefore, if any of your related only by law is asking you for any loan or whatsoever, please bear in mind that they had nothing to loose and we can lost everything!